Balinese weddings are a significant part of Balinese culture, especially the Hindu culture. By joining in marriage with another, the individual announces that he is leaving the brahmacari stage of his life. Because of this importance, each portion of the ceremony is full of symbolism and tradition.
The wedding begins with a Memadik process, where the families of the bride and groom ask the bride if she truly desires marriage with this man. If she responds positively, she goes with her husband-to-be to his family’s house. Later that day or soon thereafter, an official ceremony will be held for family and friends to witness. In Balinese culture, a marriage is between both families, not just the couple. Therefore, if there is anyone even distantly related to the bride or groom, they will attend. After that ceremony, the bridal couple and family goes to the bride’s house and says their goodbyes.
The significance of the wedding does not stop after the ceremony. A man, once married, has the ability to speak at a Banjar meeting and becomes, in the eyes of the community, an adult. He will be able to attend special ceremonies and activities and will be given more responsibility within his village.
Weddings in Bali are so full of excitement and tradition that they have become a favorite event even for tourists. While many weddings are still private, some families allow visitors to come; and many visitors to Bali are now paying to have their own Balinese wedding. It is certainly an aspect of Balinese culture that individuals should feel privileged to experience.